To understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society we become are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings and of having to p…
We are in a constant battle with our own mind to assure ourself that, yes, this is really us and our life. Even though everything we touch, hear, see and feel points to the absolute contrary. We just…
'DISSY' means feeling detached from yourself, observing yourself and your feelings and thoughts as if they belong to someone else you are watching in a movie. Some of the typical symptoms are: out-of…
As we grow in The Stages, we leave others behind. We outgrow certain relationships and part company with those who cannot grow with us. We seek students with whom we have an affinity—those who nurt…
For us in recovery the worst form of isolation and the deepest source of loneliness comes from being cut off from our own child within. This occurs when we fail to make contact with our child—because…
As long as we are not in contact with our child within we are not going to be happy, we are not going to be, and we are not going to have fun. The child within is the fun, child within will prevail, …
At The Stages we begin to realise as our child within awakes that disapproval has been used as a weapon against us in childhood and beyond. If we've have developed a phobia of disapproval, then other…
Anxiously seeking approval is an attempt at trying to gain and keep a further sense of control where their is none.A struggle to gain self worth from another lies at the failed motivations of childho…
When the child within was banished from our consciousness we started constantly seeking approval which means we're perpetually worried that others are forming a bad opinion of us. We come to feel vul…
