Recognising our own interior voice blaming and shaming, judging and creating stories of victimisation and pointing outwards

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBpXI8prLGvHymnlHo7WgIInydetBCj_z6zuDk5y0y9pXnTPT6dJW6MfU29zDP1atjWp7SbEZKJhvo5cR5OuVXm8d2Cw6FDINA0JKMRhhw-RKlcdBqJysg63f4rieJ9luUraDnI_Eiu4I/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBpXI8prLGvHymnlHo7WgIInydetBCj_z6zuDk5y0y9pXnTPT6dJW6MfU29zDP1atjWp7SbEZKJhvo5cR5OuVXm8d2Cw6FDINA0JKMRhhw-RKlcdBqJysg63f4rieJ9luUraDnI_Eiu4I/s1600/1-crack+mirror.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">Recognising our own interior voice blaming and shaming, judging and creating stories of victimisation and pointing outwards away from the our traumas to convince us that our pain has nothing to do with needing to heal our Child Within.<br /><br />This is the power that keeps us attached to and obsessing about the very person or thing that you are sustaining damage from, and this is the pain body that will tell you any “story,” any “excuse” and any “justification” to think and operate in a way that will generate more and more pain in our life.<br /><br />This is the power that convinces us to impulsively go for quick fixes and / or blaming, to try to relieve the pain – yet this only generates more damage in our life.<br /> our false self is the power that keeps you separated from recovery – and ensures we will never achieve our full recovery .<br /><br />In real life terms this means our false constructed self stands between our experiencing true expansion, full flourishing, genuine unconditionally loving connections, and our highest potential and our greatest joy.<br /><br />Because when you do – the false self can not exist with us.</span><span style="background-color: #86d6dd; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif, 'Droid Sans'; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">-</span>

Recognising our own interior voice blaming and shaming, judging and creating stories of victimisation and pointing outwards

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The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkont9DkxB-vORmVOHpyRPlsULGAlm345s1YposprZ7JimUnDxX8RNaTHR-xnVfOccYQ8YGv_ZORDy6Lf1J8nlJapbrp3MfP0IHMgYT_wb75selk3FYJaCuABZpJDQ3IjA0zAl3QyZUaM/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkont9DkxB-vORmVOHpyRPlsULGAlm345s1YposprZ7JimUnDxX8RNaTHR-xnVfOccYQ8YGv_ZORDy6Lf1J8nlJapbrp3MfP0IHMgYT_wb75selk3FYJaCuABZpJDQ3IjA0zAl3QyZUaM/s200/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" width="129" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "verdana" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 14.6666669845581px; line-height: 20.5333347320557px;"> The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.An acknowledgement of our personal truth, Riding it towards our child within, as opposed to fighting it, will lead to healing and recovery. What helps is to observe it with compassion, to experience it without being swallowed by it. The Child Within is about creating a gentle and healing environment that allows us to re-orient to the world after regaining contact with our child buried deeply within..</span>

The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.

 The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.An acknowledgement of our personal truth, Riding it towards ou...

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The Ten Stages are difficult to grasp at first.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl2imtnDv6-lXvgQTfPUynP0iahOP8n2WgPaXfLMF0i1C4FshM1XLflKRKPOK_V5r6sqX15eAlv_h7-PbIkn8MEi3_-Qw3AqRdH5NYzVtL3mcOghIuzjgkat9pIFrozfyBBx6AX2qP-ho/s1600/1-1-HOB-random40.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl2imtnDv6-lXvgQTfPUynP0iahOP8n2WgPaXfLMF0i1C4FshM1XLflKRKPOK_V5r6sqX15eAlv_h7-PbIkn8MEi3_-Qw3AqRdH5NYzVtL3mcOghIuzjgkat9pIFrozfyBBx6AX2qP-ho/s320/1-1-HOB-random40.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;">The Ten Stages are difficult to grasp at first. Everyone faces a period of disbelief which is acknowledged faced discussed in the facing of the full reality of recovery at the stages.It leads people to feel very angry, resentful, rage filled. This is so unfair! I already know this. I have dealt with this, you dont know how difficult my life is. Do you know how long I have been in recovery for....</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;">What do we do when we keep bumping our heads against the seeming invincibility of dissociation? This is the time when we unrealistically bargain with life, we attempt one last attempt at manipulation – I’ll give you this, and you’ll give me what I want. There’s nothing wrong about bargaining – when it is based on offering the other party something they might really be interested in. It is not very realistic to try to bargain with dissociation  forces, illness, addiction or just plain reality.</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;">Guilt is a way of making sense of what is happening, of regaining some form of control over the uncontrollable: It must be my fault.</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;">Once the reality of recovery sets in, the student feel overwhelmed, they become depressed. All resistance is futile.</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;">Anger, unrealistic bargaining, depression… this is our struggle against “real” problems in the outside world, but also against our own child within.</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 28.7999992370605px; word-wrap: break-word;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #6b8095; font-family: 'PT Serif', sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 28.7999992370605px;"> Eventually we reach a stage where we become fully aware of impending destruction, and neither angry nor depressed about it. We have to accept our solution at the stages. 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The Ten Stages are difficult to grasp at first.

The Ten Stages are difficult to grasp at first. Everyone faces a period of disbelief which is acknowledged faced discussed in the facing o...

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Ten Stages of Grief for our Child Within

<div style="float: left; font-weight: 400; height: 79px; line-height: 40px; margin: 0px 10px; overflow: hidden; padding-bottom: 10px; position: relative; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Ten Stages of Grief for our Child Within</span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg14QNvWR30pV_dAcbKP9otcFg6TYoliC2GCpjqwFv8ZA09gsBMvGNOe5mxIRzF9sLuVOytswSyxPZ6WHo74rkxuBSySkpHASRNwMytOWeDQjpGtOHm1B0EEaOIXqrBqX40Fjya4k9TMoUl/s1600/ten+stages.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><img border="0" height="130" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg14QNvWR30pV_dAcbKP9otcFg6TYoliC2GCpjqwFv8ZA09gsBMvGNOe5mxIRzF9sLuVOytswSyxPZ6WHo74rkxuBSySkpHASRNwMytOWeDQjpGtOHm1B0EEaOIXqrBqX40Fjya4k9TMoUl/s320/ten+stages.png" width="320" /></span></a></div> <div> <br /></div> <div> <br /></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Ten Stages of Mourning @ The Ten Stages<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />1. TOXIC REMEMBRANCE SHOCK: We have due to constant dissociation Anaesthetised ourselves against overwhelming loss. We have Not been able to comprehend, to face the full magnitude of emotional alienation as the child within. We become elated and despondent our belief systems start to crumble and we become thirsty for the studies. There is only so much physical or psychic pain which can be endured by the child within, and when that limit is reached, our mental/emotional system shuts down. We have been often in a state of repressed denial for a very long time. We have expressed this as “numbness,” or as a sense of unreality, a sense of disassociation.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />2 EMOTIONAL CHILD WITHIN RELEASE: We start to return to a full on realistic world. At this time we begin to quantify the extent of our loss and realise how dreadful that loss has been. We tend to healthily vent this releases of pent-up emotions is better than our battle to constantly repress them, but we start to feel and express strong emotions. As the shock wears off, we feel the need to release all the emotions that have been building up. Our release may be verbal or physical, and while this is healthy, care should be taken to ensure our safety, others, or personal property. We have to recognised this stage and need to provided “screaming places” where these powerful emotions can be safely vented.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />3. DEPRESSION, LONELINESS AND UTTER ISOLATION: Our pent-up feelings break threw the carefully constructed dam of denial.Releasing the feeling of “Their is No help for me.” We descend down in the depths of despair. We identify and realise this is a NORMAL feeling. At this stage we needed to be quietly aided by EXPRESSED CONCERN in our recovery and its goals. A response to loss is for childhood is to experience vivid dreams, so vivid that we believe we have actually seen or heard our specific abuse or a moment from the past as it expresses itself in our sub-conscious. Another manifestation is that the we will mistake another person for the person from our past, usually on the street or in a store. This will sometimes cause us great embarrassment as we may address the stranger, only to realise our mistake.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />4.WE CAN DEVELOP PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF DISTRESS: “Ill” with symptoms related to the loss, weight loss, alienation. Our best help is to understand the Stages process and press onwards even though we wish to once more escape.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />5. PANIC: We can become convinced “something is wrong with us” as a survivor. we suffer survivor remorse, we can concentrate on little else. We may fear a further loss of our sanity.In effect we are regaining our sanity<br /><br /><br />6. GUILT FEELINGS: We may recall our own past neglect, mistreatment, or wrong to the abuser. Wrongs may be imaginary or exaggerated. But they may be REAL wrongs with REAL guilt. Sharing and unburdening of real guilt gives best relief. “Forgiveness” of real wrongs, done to us as if they were imaginary, is no adequate solution.<br /><br /><br />7. HOSTILITY: Feeling better leads us to expressing self more actively. Hostile expressions toward those who “caused” our losses. Such hostility is normal and blameless becoming part of the healing process.<br /><br /><br /><br />8. WE HAVE AN INABILITY TO RENEW NORMAL ACTIVITIES: We feel we cannot get back to “business as usual.” We must bear loss alone, since others are back to normal activities. We Need encouragement to face new realities, not to be sheltered from them.We start to move away from old friends and associates as we recognise we have little in common with them.We pick up the support from The Stages Guides. The HEALING OF OUR MEMORIES: There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as the recovering begins to face the world with more and more confidence.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />9. WE GRADUAL OVERCOME OUR GRIEF FOR OUR CHILDHOOD: Our emotional balance returns little by little, like healing of a physical wound. The Rate and severity can varies with each of us.We start to acknowledge our similarity of hurt and loss.There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as we begin to face the world with more and more confidence.Loss brings about changes. We begin to mature it is in the resumption of the adult life and going on through the years without a parent, that we must come to the realisation that a new role is to be accepted and lived, and our period of grief for ourselves is over. The Renewed cycle of our life continues, and our bereaved self can finally shed the cloak of grief and take on the robe of peace and renewal.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />10. WE HAVE TO MAKE A READJUSTMENT TO THE NEW REALITIES OF OUR RECOVERED LIFE: We are Not our “old self again,” because there is now a new situation a new form of reality. We feel the freedom of our grief process . We feel Stronger, deeper, better for having faced and overcome some of our dysfunctional childhood.We realise that this is a life time changing event and we practice the ten stages studying our past history in the light of our new reality.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />- See more at: http://frasertrevor.blogspot.co.uk/2015/04/ten-stages-of-mourning-for-our.html#sthash.poK7aLYa.dpuf</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/child-within-ten-stages-of-mourning.html" style="border-radius: 2px; 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