Growth is when we realise the expansive urge for truth at our core. This is our deepest and most natural tendency—to grow beyond ourselves. In order to grow, we must align with this calling. But there is a price: we must resolve our traumatic legacy. We must leave our tribes and their denial of the wounds we carry. We must leave their limiting definitions of meaning and safety.
The brain of adult survivors of abuse is like a laptop that's been dropped on the floor. Their internal wiring is all over the place. Chemical messengers aren't produced in sufficient numbers or they…
