The child within and the parental voice: What is a Shame Curse?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsUglggf2ih0z7gGGLANS5TV2MVs-I8ZCJQI1zXPFrBb19V__tmgmxd40fvhc1rSZp9sOeGe5mnd5dWWqbiCU_qrXJQT5s_ZRkdVvBP7V0z40bET9sc2dZn4LjEszlkR-eFuFrxytNZ_k/s1600/workshop+out.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsUglggf2ih0z7gGGLANS5TV2MVs-I8ZCJQI1zXPFrBb19V__tmgmxd40fvhc1rSZp9sOeGe5mnd5dWWqbiCU_qrXJQT5s_ZRkdVvBP7V0z40bET9sc2dZn4LjEszlkR-eFuFrxytNZ_k/s320/workshop+out.jpg" width="226" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />The child within and the parental voice:<br />What is a Shame Curse? Definition of a Shame Curse.<br /><br />A shame curse is strong messages of rejection and negation by a significant group - one's family or peers. The words and behavior of this reference group has the same effect as a curse because one is forced to a negative belief by the way you are treated. Ultimately, it leaves one with the feeling that one does not have the right to exist - what I mean by shame.<br /><br /><br />A family (church, work place, school or village) throws a 'shame curse' when they treat a person as if they do not belong. Sometimes the youngest child is given no voice in family matters even when they grow up. There opinions, decisions and wisdom is given no value, weight or honour.<br /><br />Being treated by a reference social group as if you did not belong, with little or no say and very little honour or value is the shame curse in action. It is a failure of love. It is a failure to uphold you, encourage you and love you to life.<br /><br />The shame curse is a message from those who should by life-giving; instead they send a message of death. Shame curses send messages to the target victim. Whether intended or not the message is to die rather than to live. Shaming is a death curse .</span>

The child within and the parental voice: What is a Shame Curse?

The child within and the parental voice: What is a Shame Curse? Definition of a Shame Curse. A shame curse is strong messages of rejection...

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