The child within is a new species. Although he can physically interbreed with others of Homo sapiens, he does not. He lives in a different world. His mental make-up is different from theirs. This is …
The child within is a new species.
March 2015
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- "self knowledge" simply becomes another religion.
- #childwithin#10stages
- 'DISSY' means feeling detached from yourself
- 'Hangover-free' alcohol
- Addiction replacement is nothing but a substitute
- All addiction
- Anger is not an enemy at the stages.
- Anxiously seeking approval is an attempt at trying to gain and keep a further sense of control where their is none.
- As we begin to love and respect ourselves we stop craving for a different life style
- As we grow in The Stages
- As we study the stages
- At The Stages we begin to realise as our child within awakes that disapproval has been used as a weapon against us in childhood and beyond.
- Attempting the stages requires major sacrifice
- BOOM – nice child within is GONE and triggered child within shows up.
- Bamboo Garden Workshops
- Burning and releasing at the stages workshops
- But when I got sober the wilderness was still there.
- Chances are we are not healthy enough to avoid somehow depriving the child within of its emotional needs
- Child Within Ten Stages of Mourning
- Choice is actually more powerful than recovery programs because we get to CHOOSE to RECOVER.
- Connection with an another person is impossible if we aren't connected with ourselves.
- Diabetes 101: It is not a death sentence
- Dissociation: Maggot in the Brain - Admission of Trauma
- Don't be a follower
- Ego always seeks death. Recovery always seeks life.
- For each cookie she took
- For us in recovery the worst form of isolation and the deepest source of loneliness comes from being cut off from our own child within.
- Growth is when we realise the expansive urge for truth at our core. This is our deepest and most natural tendency—to grow beyond ourselves.
- Healing our unresolved childhood will accomplish separate studies
- Herbal remedy for stroke recovery?
- Hit our Brain’s Pause Button
- I lost the two dollars
- I want it.
- If we start care at all about ourselves
- In order to recover from alcoholism it is crucial to understand the process of alcohol addiction.
- It is our child hidden within
- It's never too late to try something new!
- It's not uncommon for emotional disconnection/disassociation to be overlaid by a false equanimity
- LESSON 2: like all bad decisions we make
- Lesson One: We have found it is fundamentally impossible to pressure another person into being more authentic
- Loss of the Right to Life
- Many of us are spiritually anorexic.
- Modern Society and point the bone curse used to curse addicts
- Most of us arrive at a sense of self and vocation only after a long journey through alien lands. But this journey bears no resemblance to the trouble-free "travel packages"
- Moving forward is disturbing
- One way to look at the stages process: taking care of ourselves better than our parents took care of us.
- Opioid Crisis Forces Physicians To Focus On Alternative Pain Treatments
- Our historical parents may not have known how to care for their child within
- Our minds as adult survivors of trauma are similar to a laptop that's been dropped on the floor. | The Ten Stages
- Recognising our own interior voice blaming and shaming
- Recovery is only found by looking within
- Redding Rolfing expert offers alternative way to treat chronic pain
- Self-doubt is part of the ten stages healing process.
- Self-knowledge is not a competition. For those to whom it is a competition
- Smoking may be hardwired into addicts’ brains
- Sometimes we simply need permission to be ourselves.
- Spiritual kindergarten begins with the admission that we are in trouble.
- Stages Workshop deep meditation on making contact.
- Stages invites us to make a decision.
- Students at the Stages who pay a fee make a sacrifice – and thus buy a course.
- THE RECOVERY CLUB:
- Ten Stage Recovery is an action
- Ten Stage Workshops If you know how to go back to your child within and listen carefully every day for five or ten minutes
- Ten Stages of Mourning for Our Childhood
- That's the stages path - vulnerability and courage.
- The Stages Meditation of deep silence
- The Stages Safe Rooms recovery Growth is humbling. Growth requires vulnerability
- The Ten Stages and begins to address the hidden part of relapse phase of an addiction.
- The Ten Stages are difficult to grasp at first.
- The Ten Stages is a natural process
- The Truth of ourselves
- The brain of adult survivors of abuse is like a laptop that's been dropped on the floor.
- The child within and the parental voice: What is a Shame Curse?
- The child within asks for care and love
- The child within is a new species.
- The child within is in each cell of our body.
- The child within is the fun
- The critical ingredient in recovery is getting off your butt and doing something.
- The cry we hear from deep in our hearts
- The difference between thinking you are drowning in a stormy sea and knowing you cannot drown because there isn't any water in sight for miles around
- The first act of honouring the self is the assertion of consciousness.
- The hidden agendas of others that play out in our lives. These traumas play out on individual levels
- The mind is above time and space. If you decide to recover
- The primary function of the ten stages is to recognise and not to fight.
- The quality of our life is directly related to the amount of uncomfortable conversations we are willing to have with our child within.
- The surprising effects of loneliness on health
- There is no normal life that is free of pain.
- These Mindfulness tools are suggestions for enhancing our meditational experience.
- Through meditation we have to first discover that we are no one
- To understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society
- Vulnerability with others is an earned process that springs out of our relationship with ourselves
- WE become awakened to the fact
- We are in a constant battle with our own mind
- We are not searching for the perfect partner. We're searching for the perfect babysitter.
- We can become emotionally traumatised in early childhood
- We do not attempt to narcissistically gratify anyone else unless we are in denial of our own comparable wounds.
- We do not erode our self-esteem over big issues but over small ones
- We have to relearn the language of our childhood
- We learn to recognise our child within
- We must embark on our own healing process where we are our own best ally
- We need to return and take care of ourself.
- We strongly support experimentation.
- When in doubt and in a conflict
- When the child within was banished from our consciousness we started constantly seeking approval
- When we become aware that we’ve forgotten the wounded child within ourselves
- Without a consistent methodology of the stages for determining truth from falsehood
- Zombies are a metaphor for the experience of dread a child
- and anyone who tells you otherwise is not moving forward.
- and exploitation of the earth.
- and honest with us.
- and on the global levels of war
- and our spirit. We are created perfect
- and there is an emotional logic to it.
- and to deprive the child within of any of its emotional needs is to traumatize our child.
- become a student at the Stages.
- but we do the opposite.
- child within will prevail
- connected
- cultural levels
- economics
- envy and self-doubt will be constant companions.
- even our reenactments/dissociation offer us a chance to learn.
- healing will take place.
- is about the same thing
- it will immediately compensate you with intuition.
- judging and creating stories of victimisation and pointing outwards
- not anymore
- not looking without.
- nothing special
- our fundamental genetic beauty
- side with your wounded child within
- so they transmitted their child to us.
- stages
- suffering child within us.
- that there is a young
- the child is our being
- the child is our healthy decoration
- the child is our make-up
- the function of loving-kindness is to soothe and relieve our difficult emotions.
- the man took one too.
- trust and safety.
- we leave behind those invested in sleep.
- we leave others behind.
- we will FEEL as if we are actually taking care of ourselves.
- we'll get some results.
- whether it's a substance addiction or a behavioural addiction
- www.facebook.com/thetenstages
stages
Title: stages
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Author: Fraser Trevor
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Sometimes we simply need permission to be ourselves.
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